So the story so far...it's not unusual but hey it may just make you laugh....cry....or give you a reason to think about what's going on in your world.
Two months ago my husband of 7 yrs met a young lady....and I mean young...he could actually be her dad. Now I need to explain here that we're in our 40's have two small children and for the last 6 yrs I've been running my own, moderately successful business.
You see he needed to be adored! Yep adored. Now when you're dealing with the day to day life of running a home, a business, doing the school run, the reading practice and ..... well I guess adoration was not exactly on the cards. Love? Yes. Respect? Yes. Trust? You bet.
So imagine the shock to being told that you are no longer required. Gutting? Maybe.....but this old thing (by the way I'm 41) is made of tougher stuff.
My friends have suggested that I start a blog - it's either that or draft a story line for one of the soaps.
Where do I start? At the beginning.
Over the last few years hubby has not been able to hold down a job for more than 6 months at a time. Money has not been an issue thanks to the work that I have been doing....his spending that money has also come quite naturally.
So picture the situation......bolt from the blue....."I love the kids but I'm not too sure about you anymore"
"OK, can you explain?"
A week later and several unexplained nights away from home.....
"I've fallen in love" - let's face it, it could happen to any of us - "the hill of guilt I feel about what I am doing to you is far outweighed by the mountain of love I feel for my new lady"
Fall over pick yourself up and move on darling....that's hurtful.
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