OK so what has been happening over the last couple of days.....well are you ready for this?

Yesterday I sat at my desk in corporate land and up popped an message from the email police. Can you imagine how it felt when I realised that they were holding a dodgy email....from his girlfriend!

This I had to see.

'Please Mr Email policeman, could you release this little email for me?' I asked.

And ping....2 minutes later there is was.

Let's just remember this is a very young lady who in all honesty probably didn't expect messing about with a married chap would result in him moving in with all his baggage.

It was full of woe. She was so sorry and they were finding that they are not blissfully happy....and this poor man is so upset and crys at night for what he has lost....

And so it went on.

Now call me heartless...though I don't think I am....but all I could do was to reaspond by saying she has got what she wanted...what was her problem?

So after this little trick did not create a massive amount of reaction the poor chap had to resort to a new tactic.....

He decided to tell me that this young lady has not been his first 'wifelette', there have be 17 of them over the course of our marriage. Well, knock me down with a feather! Or something like that.

Thi remember is the same guy who wanted to come back just 5 short days ago. Girls I can hear you screaming at your screens! Don't worry, he will not be coming back here.

So what has today brought.

He was in the house today, having breakfast and doing their washing. But the locks have now been changed. He was warned in a letter from the solicitors yesterday and by all accounts the petition should drop through his letter box over the next couple of days.

It's sad, I feel very let down and it really has made me wonder what on earth I was married to.

But hey, pick yourself up. Dust yourself down. Hold your head up high. Smile and greet the world.