Hi and welcome to today's chapter.
After much excitement from my girls at the thought of seeing their daddy....he was in a bit of a strop when he arrived as yes, the locks have been changed.
Did I realise he has every right to be able to break into his own house? Just try sunshine. Just try.
As he has no cash he'd asked if I could prepare a picnic for their day out....so the girls and I had it all ready for when he arrived.
Off they went to the zoo, but not before I was asked exactly what I was going to do with my 'day off'.....supermarket, cleaning, you know the usual weekend chores that most of us have to do.
So 6 hours later, back they arrive. 'They need something for their tea' I was told....'and by the way. I think you are deranged and mentally unstable. You are hostile towards me and I don't deserve it. My solicitor has told me I can introduce the girls to my new girlfriend any time I like.......
You get the idea of the tone?
So he decides it's time to go and a very upset little girl starts to cry.....'Don't worry' he says 'I'm going to be alright. You don't need to cry for me' Me thinks he got the wrong end of the stick here.
I ask you
alicekate

My ex and your's...are they related?????
After too many years of putting up with his coming and going and finally refusing to let him back...I now get 'well there was obviously something wrong with us to have made me shag someone else!'
And like you say, when the total attention shifts from them to children they can't handle it.
Stay strong!